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BDSM paddles
From gentle stroking to a powerful slap: BDSM paddles are popular BDSM toys and should not be missing from any spanking session.
frequently asked questions
What is a BDSM paddle?
A paddle is an extremely popular helper in the bondage and SM scene. They are often used in role-playing games in particular, for example, when the dominatrix punishes her naughty slave or the policeman disciplines the burglar. Compared to crops and whips, a paddle provides particularly intense pain and pleasure. The spanking straps, as BDSM paddles are also known, are equipped with a handle that is followed by a large and wide striking surface. During spanking, this hits the submissive’s bottom with a loud slap and provides strong sensations.
What are the differences between BDSM paddles?
BDSM paddles are available in different sizes and made from different materials, such as wood, bamboo, rubber or leather. Some paddles have holes or embossed words that can then be considered red marks on the skin. A special feature among the paddles is the tawse: this paddle consists of two parallel striking surfaces separated by a gap. This increases the intensity. As a tawse can cause much more pain than normal BDSM paddles, it should exclusively be used by spanking professionals.
Which BDSM paddles are suitable for spanking beginners?
BDSM beginners are best off using a paddle without embossing, as this causes more pain. Some paddles are padded or covered with fur—these are perfect for beginners. You should also start slowly and only try small strokes at first so that you can find out what intensity you like.
Which BDSM paddles are suitable for advanced users?
If you already have some experience with paddles, it’s best to opt for a leather BDSM paddle. These paddles can have different degrees of impact. The harder the core of the paddle, the greater the force you can transfer with a butt slapper.
BDSM paddles made of silicone or rubber are often a surprise. Such paddles are quickly underestimated. Even if they feel soft, they deliver an impressive blow to the body—and with very little effort.
If you want intense pleasure and pain that is taken to the extreme, you should opt for a wooden or plastic paddle. The solidity and stability of the strap create an unprecedented intensity that will make you the master of domination.
How does the size of the BDSM paddle affect the intensity of the pain?
The following applies to a BDSM paddle: the larger the paddle, the less intense the pleasure-pain. This is because the size distributes the impact over a wide area, and the force spreads more evenly over the body. With a narrower paddle, the force is concentrated on a smaller area. This gives you a stronger effect, and the pain goes deeper.
What should I bear in mind when using a BDSM paddle?
Basically, everything you have agreed to beforehand applies. Agreement is the be-all and end-all of all BDSM practices. Ask your sub beforehand how strong the pleasure-pain should be. Once you have discussed everything and found the right BDSM paddle for you, you still need to decide on a safe word. If the punished person says this word, all action will stop immediately. If you stick to these basic rules, nothing can happen that could cause you any serious damage.
Which areas of the body can be worked on with the paddle?
To prevent the pleasure from turning into too much pain, you should know which parts of the body can be worked on during spanking. Areas of the body such as the buttocks or thighs are best suited, as there is a lot of muscle tissue and fat here. The spine, genitals, or kidney area are taboo.
Can I combine my paddle with other BDSM toys?
Yes, definitely! Especially if you combine your new leather paddle with great and sturdy restraints or perhaps add an eye mask to your role play, there are entirely new possibilities. If your partner has been very naughty again, simply tie him or her to the banister and spank him or her with strong blows. The eye mask provides a tingling increase in perception and makes playing with power and devotion even more impressive.