Dilators
Dilators are also called dilators or – in the case of shorter models – penis plugs.
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What is a dilator?
Dilators are also called dilators or—for shorter models—penis plugs. They are an elongated toy with a conical shape that you can insert into your urethra. Dilators are therefore one of the more specialized toys. The stretching of the urethra provides very intense stimulation, where sometimes the movement of the penis alone is enough to pamper you with tingling stimulation.
What does a dilator do?
Dilators originally come from the medical field and are used to widen narrow body openings such as the urethra. The dilator is inserted into the urethra for this purpose. It can either remain there or be easily moved back and forth. However, as this results in strong stimulation, many people use dilators for exclusively erotic purposes outside of medicine.
What different dilators are there?
The product range of dilators and penis plugs extends from small and fine to long and intensely stimulating. You can buy the following dilators from Valiters:
- Dilators made of silicone in various lengths so they can be used with or without an erection
- Stainless-steel penis plugs with or without a glans ring
- Dilators for sounding
- Penis plugs with a wide base like anal plugs
- Dilators with an opening so the wearer can urinate or have an orgasm
- Dilators for electrosex
- Dilators with vibration
- Dilator sets
How do you use a dilator?
If you want to use a dilator, one thing is particularly important: hygiene! You should therefore always wash your hands and your penis before inserting the dilator. It is best to wear sterile latex gloves. The dilator itself should be washed and treated with a disinfectant before and after each use. You should also proceed slowly and carefully; otherwise, you risk injury. Take your time and use a lubricant—we recommend a water-based lubricant for silicone dilators. The easiest way to insert the dilator is to lie on your back. Now pull back the foreskin and pull the opening of the penis slightly apart. Hold the rod in front of your body and push it about one centimeter into your penis. Then insert the dilator further bit by bit. Remove the dilator immediately if it becomes uncomfortable or you feel pain. If you are using the plug together with your partner, you should discuss this well in advance and set limits. If the dilator is used as part of a BDSM session or SM role play, you should define a safeword.
Caution: Sometimes men want to use a dilator to experience a so-called dry orgasm. If the dilator is not hollow inside, your urethra is blocked by the dilator, and you cannot come as usual. It is then passed into the bladder and excreted with the urine. However, you should speak to a urologist before trying this sexual practice. We recommend that you practice orgasm without ejaculation in other ways.
Are dilators also suitable for beginners?
Dilators and penis plugs are not for BDSM beginners and should be used carefully. So if you have no experience at all, you should take your time and start with dry runs first. On a stiff penis, the erectile tissue and urethra are very close together, so you can easily injure yourself. Long dilators can also stimulate your bladder directly—we strongly advise beginners not to try this! Find out more and use a shorter silicone dilator first.
Can women also wear a dilator?
Even though dilators are a popular sex toy for men, women can of course also use a dilator. However, the urethra in women is considerably shorter than in men—usually only around 3 to 4 cm. To avoid injury, women should only insert very short dilators.
How can I combine dilators with other sex toys?
Of course you can also use other SM toys for your session in addition to a dilator! With restraints and a blindfold, a penis plug provides the ultimate stimulation when playing for trust and power. Let yourself be tied to the bed or another place with handcuffs or ankle cuffs and feel how you have to surrender to your partner’s wishes. Not into bondage games, but spanking is? Then let your sweetheart spank your bottom with a paddle! The wide range in our store offers you a wide selection of games that range from soft to hard.
What is a dilator?
Dilators are also called dilators or—for shorter models—penis plugs. They are an elongated toy with a conical shape that you can insert into your urethra. Dilators are therefore one of the more specialized toys. The stretching of the urethra provides very intense stimulation, where sometimes the movement of the penis alone is enough to pamper you with tingling stimulation.
What does a dilator do?
Dilators originally come from the medical field and are used to widen narrow body openings such as the urethra. The dilator is inserted into the urethra for this purpose. It can either remain there or be easily moved back and forth. However, as this results in strong stimulation, many people use dilators for exclusively erotic purposes outside of medicine.
What different dilators are there?
The product range of dilators and penis plugs extends from small and fine to long and intensely stimulating. You can buy the following dilators from Valiters:
- Dilators made of silicone in various lengths so they can be used with or without an erection
- Stainless-steel penis plugs with or without a glans ring
- Dilators for sounding
- Penis plugs with a wide base like anal plugs
- Dilators with an opening so the wearer can urinate or have an orgasm
- Dilators for electrosex
- Dilators with vibration
- Dilator sets
How do you use a dilator?
If you want to use a dilator, one thing is particularly important: hygiene! You should therefore always wash your hands and your penis before inserting the dilator. It is best to wear sterile latex gloves. The dilator itself should be washed and treated with a disinfectant before and after each use. You should also proceed slowly and carefully; otherwise, you risk injury. Take your time and use a lubricant—we recommend a water-based lubricant for silicone dilators. The easiest way to insert the dilator is to lie on your back. Now pull back the foreskin and pull the opening of the penis slightly apart. Hold the rod in front of your body and push it about one centimeter into your penis. Then insert the dilator further bit by bit. Remove the dilator immediately if it becomes uncomfortable or you feel pain. If you are using the plug together with your partner, you should discuss this well in advance and set limits. If the dilator is used as part of a BDSM session or SM role play, you should define a safeword.
Caution: Sometimes men want to use a dilator to experience a so-called dry orgasm. If the dilator is not hollow inside, your urethra is blocked by the dilator, and you cannot come as usual. It is then passed into the bladder and excreted with the urine. However, you should speak to a urologist before trying this sexual practice. We recommend that you practice orgasm without ejaculation in other ways.
Are dilators also suitable for beginners?
Dilators and penis plugs are not for BDSM beginners and should be used carefully. So if you have no experience at all, you should take your time and start with dry runs first. On a stiff penis, the erectile tissue and urethra are very close together, so you can easily injure yourself. Long dilators can also stimulate your bladder directly—we strongly advise beginners not to try this! Find out more and use a shorter silicone dilator first.
Can women also wear a dilator?
Even though dilators are a popular sex toy for men, women can of course also use a dilator. However, the urethra in women is considerably shorter than in men—usually only around 3 to 4 cm. To avoid injury, women should only insert very short dilators.
How can I combine dilators with other sex toys?
Of course you can also use other SM toys for your session in addition to a dilator! With restraints and a blindfold, a penis plug provides the ultimate stimulation when playing for trust and power. Let yourself be tied to the bed or another place with handcuffs or ankle cuffs and feel how you have to surrender to your partner’s wishes. Not into bondage games, but spanking is? Then let your sweetheart spank your bottom with a paddle! The wide range in our store offers you a wide selection of games that range from soft to hard.