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Handcuffs
Handcuffs are now standard equipment in many bedrooms. No wonder, because they are perfect for getting started in the world of BDSM, but are also popular with professionals.
frequently asked questions
Why are BDSM handcuffs so popular?
Whether you’re a bondage fan, a creative fetish game or simply having your hands tied behind your back: Who doesn’t get turned on when their partner stands in the doorway grinning, with a pair of handcuffs dangling from their finger and asks: “Who was bad and needs to be punished?”…
Bondage or hot bondage games can have many different facets – but in any case it’s all about the allure and eroticism between power and devotion. Your BDSM scenario will be particularly exciting with handcuffs: who sets the tone, who submits?
Which BDSM handcuffs are suitable for beginners?
Almost all handcuffs are suitable for both bondage professionals and BDSM beginners. It is important that you check whether the handcuffs have a safety bar before you buy them – this is the case with most models in our online sex store. The small lever is located on the lock and opens the handcuffs immediately when it is pressed. This means that the handcuffed person can free themselves at any time if they feel uncomfortable, want to end the game immediately or can no longer find the key. There are also inexpensive handcuffs for bondage beginners, which you can use to try out the spicy bondage game for the first time. Plush handcuffs are particularly soft and protect the wrists from unpleasant pressure points – especially if things get a little wilder. If that’s still too hard for you, you can also try out our silicone handcuffs or padded BDSM restraints first.
What should you consider when buying BDSM handcuffs?
It is important that the width of the BDSM handcuffs can be adjusted. Bondage is about tying up and playing with power and maximum devotion. The submissive part should not be able to free itself from its handcuffs on its own. If you are very sensitive to pain or prone to bruising, you should opt for plush handcuffs or handcuffs made of satin or leather. These can also be used for great bondage role-playing games. The material should also be tested before the handcuffs are used in water. Some metals can rust, others, such as stainless steel, do not.
What happens if I lose the key for the handcuffs?
The good thing about many BDSM handcuffs is that you can open them without a key – with a very simple click mechanism or a small safety lever. These handcuffs are perfect for bondage games, as you don’t have to worry about the keys in the heat of the S&M battle, but can devote yourself fully to the role play. This guarantees that pleasure won’t turn into frustration! For handcuffs that can’t be opened using a safety lever, you should store the keys in an easily accessible place close to your play area before fixing them.
How do I tell my partner that I want to try BDSM handcuffs during sex?
If you would like to try handcuffing your partner to the bed, just talk openly with him or her about it. You can start the conversation with a question, for example: “Have you ever thought about what it would be like to be handcuffed during sex?” Depending on how he or she reacts, you can then go further. Perhaps you can then choose some suitable handcuffs together that you can use for your bondage role play. If you want to take things slowly and carefully with soft SM, it’s best to buy a pair of soft plush handcuffs. Another idea would be to buy a pair of pretty handcuffs, wrap them up as a gift and present them with a wink on the appropriate occasion. Depending on whether you talk openly about sex and fantasies in your relationship and whether your partner likes surprises, you will have to find the most elegant way for you individually.
The same applies if you would like to be tied up during sex. Here too, you should first approach the topic of handcuffs and restraints carefully in a conversation about soft bondage or S&M. You might even whisper in your sweetheart’s ear in an intimate moment that you would like to be handcuffed to the bed – he or she certainly won’t say no to your bondage fantasy.